Yashyizweho kuri16 May, 2017 | 06:57

Menya bimwe mu bintu 6 impuguke zigaragaza umugabo agomba kuba ufite mbere y’uko gushaka Umugore

Benshi bashyingiranwa kuko bumva igihe kigeze bitewe n’imyaka bafite, ariko imyaka ntabwo ari ikibazo, icy’ibanze ni ukuba ibintu by’ibanze biba bikenewe kugira ngo ushake umufasha.

1. Akazi

Umugabo ushaka umugore agomba kuba afite ikintu akora kuko gushinga urugo bikenera amafaranga atari make. Igihe umugabo adashoboye kuzuza inshingano zirimo guhahira urugo umuryango ubamo umwiryane.

2. Igitekerezo cy’uwo yifuza kuba

Mbere y’uko umugabo ashaka, agomba kuba afite igitekerezo cy’uwo yifuza kuba .Ntabwo ushobora guhitamo umugore ushyingiranwa nawe utazi icyo umushahaho.

3. Gusobanukirwa n’icyo ushaka

Ikindi kintu umugabo agomba kumenya mbere yo gusha ni ugusobanukirwa n’ikintu ashaka mu rugo. Uko ushaka uko urugo rwawe rugomba kumera n’uko umubano wawe uzaba umeze. Mu by’ukuri ntabwo wubaka inzu utabanje gusobanukirwa n’ikintu uyikeneyemo. Nk’uko umwubatsi ategura igishushanyombonera ni nako n’uwitegura kurushinga abigenza.

4. Gukura

Ubukwe ni ubw’abantu bafite ibitekerezo. Igihe rero utarakura mu mutwe ntabwo uba uragera igihe cyo kuba wakemura ibibazo nk’umuntu mukuru. Muri icyo gihe ntabwo gushaka aba ari ibintu byawe.

5. Icyerekezo

Kugira icyerekezo ni ikindi kintu ugomba kumenya mbere yo gushaka. Ugomba kugira icyerekezo cy’uwo ushaka kuba kandi ukagira intego y’uko wifuza ubukwe bwawe buzamera. Kumenya aho werekeza nk’umugabo, nta cyerekezo ntaho uba werekeza.

6. Ubumenyi bw’umugore n’uko uzamufata

Iyo utazi kubana n’abagore nibura menya uko wabana n’umugore wawe kandi niba utazi uburyo bwo kubana na we iga mbere y’uko wabana na we mbere y’uko usaba uwo wifuza ko mwashyingiranwa

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