Yashyizweho kuri25 October, 2016 | 07:32

Ese ujya uhura n’ikibazo cyo kudashimisha umukunzi mu busaswa? Dore igisubizo

Niba ufiteikibazo nk’iki, wikiheba, ushobora kubikora rwose, nyizera. Uretse ubundi burwayi, hari igihe biterwa no kutamenya uburyo nyabwo bwo kwifashisha, muri iyi nkuru tugiye kureba bumwe mu buryo bugera kuri 6 ushobora gukoresha ugashimisha umugore wawe cyangwa umukunzi wawe ku buryo bukenewe.

Ese wari uziko igitsinagore gifata iminota igera kuri 15 kugira ngo kigere ku byishimo, mugihe igitsina gabo ari hagati y’Iminota 2 cyangwa itatu gusa!!! Ubwo rero ukeneye gushimisha umukunzi wawe ntago ari imikino ahubwo ni ibikorwa kandi bitoroshye na gato, gusa birashoboka cyane.

Iyo bibaye ngombwa jya ubaza umukunzi wawe uburyo yishimiramo gukora imibonanompuzabitsina.

Dore bumwe mu buryo bw’Umwihariko ugomba kumenya kugira ngo ushimishe umukunzi wawe mu busaswa hato na hato atazakubonamo umugabo utazi icyo gukora.

1. Gerageza kurangiza mbere (Gusohora)mbere y’igikorwa nya mukuru

Kurangiza mbere bigufasha kudahuzagurika mu gihe uri mu gikorwa ndetse no kumva uruhutse maze ukaza kugera mu gikorwa amasohora ya mbere yamaze kugenda. Iyo ukoze ibi bigufasha gukora igihe kirerekire kandi ugashimisha umukunzi wawe ku buryo atazibagirwa mu mateka ye.

2. Reka umukunzi wawe nawe arangize (Yishime) mbere y’igikorwa nya mukuru

Ibi bisaba umwanya uhagije rwose, mbese mu gategura igikorwa nk’amasaha nibura 4. Mbere y’igikorwa hari ibikorwa byinshi ukorera umukunzi wawe mu rwego rwo kumutegura. Ibi nibyo igitsina gore gikunda ko buri mu gabo yakora igihe bari ku buriri. Abagabo benshi ntibabyitaho, ahubwo bahita bihutira gukora imibonanompuzabitsina. Nukora ibi rero nta kabuza ntuzibagirana mu mutima w’umukunzi wawe.

3. Iga kwirinda gusohora vuba mu gihe uri mu gikorwa nyirizina

Nababwiye ko Umugore atinda kwishima kandi bikanafata igihe kirekire ugereranyije n’umugabo, ndetse ntanamenya ko wowe wageze ku byishimo igihe uhise usohora intanga. Tekereza ari wowe bibaye ho! Nta mugore n’umwe ubikunda rwose. Abahanga batubwira ko mu rwego rwo kwirinda ibyo, ugerageza gutekereza ibindi nk’Umukino w’amaguru, businesi zawe ndetse n’ibindi bishobora gutuma udashyira umutima cyane ku gikorwa.

4. Muhe rugari nawe agire icyo akora

Iki gikorwa abatabizi bakita ngirira. Nyamara ni ngirana, buri wese agomba kukigiramo uruhare rugaragara. Umugore nawe akenera guhabwa umwanya maze agakora uko abyifuza ndetse mu buryo butandukanye, maze akigera ku byishimo abigizemo uruhare.

5. Igirire icyizere

Icyizere nacyo kigira akamaro kanini igihe urimo gukora imibonanompuzabitsina. Aha irinde guhuzagurika ndetse no kugira ubwoba nk’aho ugiye gukora ikintu kidasanzwe mu buzima, iyoroshye wumve ko uzi ibintu kandi uri umugabo uhamye maze urebe ko udashimisha umukunzi wawe.

6. Gerageza Kuganira n’umukunzi wawe mu gikorwa nyirizina

Abenshi bakunze gukora imibonanompuzabitsina nk’abayibye, ndetse ugasanga babaye nk’ibiragi, gerageza koroshya ibintu maze ucishemo ujye umubwira utugambo twiza nka, Ndagukunda, ndakwishimira, nta wundi nkawe, ni wowe gusa, aho nawe, yiyumva mu gikorwa ndetse nawe ubwo uba uboneyeho kureragisa.

Ubushakashatsi bwagaragaje ko, Nta gishimisha, abagore ku isi nko kugera ku byishimo igihe barimo kugirana ibihe byiza n’abo bihebeye. Ndetse bemeje ko kugira ngo bigerweho hagomba kubaho uruhare kuri buri ruhande ariko cyane cyane abagabo.

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3 Comments

diane uwamahoro - 3 months ago

murabantu bakuru turabemera,

Komezusenge J,paul - 3 months ago

muri abantu babagabo izo nama mutugira zitwubakira ingo.

Muhire olivier - 4 months ago

nkunda cyane inama mutugezaho
turabibashimira cyane mukomerezaho

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