Yashyizweho kuri2 November, 2016 | 10:46

Amagambo 11 Wabwira Umukunzi Wawe Akamunyura Umutima

Urukundo ni nk’ubugenge. Gukunda nawe ugakundwa ntako bisa, kandi ni ikintu cyiza cyane gishobora kuba ku muntu uwariwe wese.
Aya magambo benshi dukunze kwita imitoma ashobora gushimisha umutima w’umukunzi wawe kandi bikanatuma arushaho kugukunda cyane, byimazeyo.

Dore amagambo wabwira umukunzi wawe akarushaho kugukunda byanyabyo:

1. Urukundo ni inzira ebyiri zidahinduka umuntu ashobora kugendamo nta kibazo; ibi wabibwira umukunzi wawe ushaka kumwumvisha ko ari inzira yawe ugendamo kandi ikuyobora ahantu hose unyuze.

2. Wankunze rimwe ariko njye igihe cyose nkurebye ndushaho ku gukunda ibihe byose.

3. Ushaka gusobanukirwa impamvu nkukunda n’icyo nkukundira byantwara amajoro yose, ushaka kumubwira ko umukunda byimazeyo.

4. Nishimira kuba ndi kumwe nawe, kuvugana nawe ni iby’igiciro cyinshi kandi mba numva wanyigumira iruhande ibihe byose.

5. Igihe uzumva uri wenyine, ujye ureba iruhande rwawe mba ndi kumwe nawe aho intoki zawe ziba zigukumbuye

6. Ndagukunda kandi mba numva ntifuza kuba ntakubura iruhande rwanye kuko ubuzima bwanjye bushingiye kuri wowe rukundo rwanjye

7. Igihe nakubonye narimfite ubwoba bwo kuba nahura nawe. Mpuye nawe ngira ubwoba bwo kuba nagusoma, nkusomye ndumva ngize ubwoba bwo kukubwira ko nkukunda. Ariko ubu kuko nkukunda ukaba ari byose byanjye, nkubuze nasara.

8. Uri akabavu ko mu mbavu zanjye kandi uri akara ko mu mara yanjye. Iyo nkubuze nta mutekano ngira muri njyewe, mba numva nahungabanye.

9. Naguhaye ikibanza mu mutima wanjye kitavogerwa n’uwariwe wese, kuko nifuje kugituzamo wowe wenyine.

10. Muri iyi si ya rurema uri umuntu w’agaciro mba numva nshaka gohora mbona imbere yanjye, simba nifuza kukubura iruhande rwanjye kuko undutira bose.

11. Kugukunda nta gihombo kirimo kandi niyo utankunda nzakomeza nkukunde kuko kugukunda nawe bigize intego y’ubuzima bwanjye.

Yanditswe na Bizimana Jean Damascene/Muhabura.rw


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3 Comments

nsengimana martin - 3 months ago

uwo mukomba inama namugira nuko yamubaza uti ese ufite gahunda yogushaka nakumbirako ayifite umumbirengo nkusure uko azagusubiza uzamenyako agukunda cyangwa uzamububaze uti nitariki cyi.

Edithe - 3 months ago

kumenyako agukunda nuko abikubwira cg akabikugaragariza ibirenze ibyo ntabyo wamenya umuntu nimugari kd kwinjira m’urukundo nukub’akana gato iyo ushatse kuba umuntu mukuru imbere y’umukunzi wawe ntagihe mumarana inama nakujyira tuza niba aruwawe muzabana

diane uwamahoro - 3 months ago

ese wabwirwaniki ko umuhungu agukunda? mfite umuhungu dukundana tumaranye imyaka itanu 5 ariko muriyo myaka tumaranye ntatunu twudushya ajya ankorera gs aranganiriza akabwira ibyubuzima bwebwose mbese ibyishi akora abayabanje kungisha inama, njyewe ndamukunda cyane bishoboka ariko njyewe ntekerezako ashoborakuba atankunda kuko ninjyewe umuhamagara keshi, ese nakora iki kugirango mbone ko ankunda? mungire inama, murakoze!

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