Yashyizweho kuri17 November, 2016 | 11:37

Dore impamvu 6 imibonano mpuzabitsina yumvikanyweho ari myiza

Ubwumvikane ni ikintu cy’ingenzi mu mibinano mpuzabitsina hagati y’abantu babiri kugira ngo imibonano mpuzabitsina yabo igende neza. Nta bwumvikane, hazabaho imbaraga zivanze n’akavuyo ndetse n’ibindi bintu bitaribyiza mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Dore bimwe mu bintu imibonano mpuzabitsina irimo ubwumvikane ishobora kukugezaho kandi byiza:

1. Ituma urukundo rwanyu rutera imbere

Imibonano mpuzabitsina irimo ubwumvikane ituma urukundo rwanyu rutera imbere ku buryo budasanzwe, aho usanga uwariwe wese ababa arwishimira akumva yabigiraho urugero rwiza muba mwamuhaye.

Ni iby’igiciro kubona hari ubwumvikane hagati y’abakundana. Mu ghe hari ubwumvikane muri mwe bizanabafasha gukora imibonanompuzabitsina irimo ubwumvikane kandi yateguwe, bityo bibazanire imbaraga nyinshi mu rukundo rwanyu bituma rurushaho gutera imbere.

Iyo nta bwumvikane nta kintu na kimwe cy’iterambere mushobora kugeraho mu rukundo rwanyu uretse intonganya ndetse n’ibindi bintu bibi bishobora gutuma habaho ugutandukana kwanyu.

2. Itanga amahoro mu rukundo

Imibonano mpuzabitsina irimo ubwumvikane, nibyo koko itanga amahoro hagati y’abayikora ndetse ikanatanga n’ibyishimo kuri bo.

Nta kabuza ko amahoro ashobora kwiganza mu gihe imibonano mpuzabitsina yanyu yakozwe mu bwumvikane no mu mucyo.

Ubwumvikane butuma nta mutima mubi ushobora kuboneka muri mwe, bityo urukundo rwanyu rukarushaho kurangwa n’ibyishimo, umunezero ndetse n’amahoro.

3. Itanga ibyishimo hagati y’abayikora

Igihe wumva umutima wawe ntacyo ugushinza, nta kabuza ko imibonano mpuzabitsina yanyu izakorwa mu mucyo ndetse inabazanire ibyishimo hagati yanyu mu gihe murikuyikora cyangwa se mu gihe yarangiye.

Ubwumvikane ni kimwe mu ntwaro zikomeye mu rukundo; kuko ubwumvikano ntacyo butageza ku bakundana, yaba amahoro cyangwa se umunezero, urukundo rurambye ndetse n’ibindi bintu byiza bishobora gutuma urukundo rwanyu rurushaho gokomeza kwishimirwa na buri wese.

4. Imara igihe kirekire

Imibonano mpuzabitsina irimo ubwumvikane ituma urukundo rwanyu ruhorana imbaraga kandi iyo mibonano mpuzabitsina izakorwa igihe kirekire kuko izaba yateguwe kandi yumvikankweho.

Imibonano mpuzabitsina yumvikanyweho ituma nta ntongaya zishobora kugaragara hagati y’abakundana cyangwa se undi muntu wese uri kuyikora. Iyo mibonano ikorwa igihe kirekire kandi ikaba yiganjemo ibyishimo n’umunezero.

Banza utegure imibonano yawe mbere yuko uyikora kuko bizatuma ugubwa neza ukumva umutima wawe uranezerewe.

5. Ituma habaho udushya mu rukundo

Imibonano mpuzabitsina ituma udushya ndetse n’ibindi bintu byiza bigaragara mu rukundo rwanyu.

Dore ibintu bishobora kwiganza mu rukundo rwanyu igihe habamo ubwumvikane: kubabarirana mu gihe umwe muri mwe akoshereje undi, gufashanya hagati yanyu, kutagira umutima wo kwikunda gusa n’ibindi byinshi.

Ibyo byose n’ibindi bitavuzwe bizakomeza kugaragara mu rukundo rwanyu kandi ubwumvikane nabwo buzakomeza kubaho bityo urukundo rwanyu rukomeze kurangwa n’umunezero.

6. Ituma ugira umunezero

Nyuma yo kumara kubona ibyo bintu byose byavuzwe haruguru, ikizakurikiraho ni umunezero uziganza hagati yanyu mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Urukundo ni ikintu gikoeye cyane kandi gishobora kwitonderwa na buri wese akamenya uburyo rukorwa mbere yo kwishora mu bintu ntakubitegura.

Mu gihe ushaka gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina iakuzanira ibyishimo n’umunezero banza uyitegure kandi ubanze uyumvikaneho n’uwo mugiyekuyikorana, bityo ibyishimo n’umunezero bizagaragara hagati yanyu.

Source: www.elcrema.com
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